Name______________________________________
_____Abrupt
_____Arrogant
_____Aggressive
_____Blaming
_____Bossy
_____Closed
_____Demanding
_____Demeaning
_____Dominating
_____Evasive
_____Harsh
_____Inconsistent
_____Indecisive
_____Indirect
_____Judgmental
_____Malleable
_____Manipulative
_____Passive
_____Procrastinating
_____Rejecting
_____Resistant
_____Rigid
_____Rude
_____Sullen
_____Suspicious
_____Withholding
_____Unreliable
_____Vindictive
*I have placed the Defensive Attitudes and Behaviors in a single column, so you can compare various lists side by side. I recommend noting on each list who the evaluation is for (you and/or someone else) and the type of exercise used.